Lawrence Lanoff is a Tantra master who travels the world teaching people how to find and free their sexuality and desire. His sweet spot is helping women more fully live into their sexual potential.
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In this video (MP3 and transcript also available) we talk about how to go through the back door of her resistance to open her to more pleasure instead of fighting her limiting beliefs head on. You will also get some inspiration and motivation to keep leading her to her potential. And you will get a Tantric lovemaking practice to create more trust and connection with your woman.

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If you’re a woman who’s looking for love…

Or even if you’re close to, or have already given up looking for love…

You need to hear about my good friend Arielle Ford.

Arielle’s the kind of woman who spent most of her life building the career of her dreams, only to look back and realize she had nobody to share in her life and success.

She was 43 at the time, and felt that she might be too late to find love. But she didn’t let that stop her.

You see, she spent most her life helping launch the careers of visionaries like Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsch and her late sister Debbie Ford.

Spending so much time with these people gave her the insights, knowledge and techniques on topics such as the Law of Attraction and manifesting whatever she wanted in her life.

So she applied what she knew, being crystal clear on what she wanted, and truly believing that the Universe would respond positively.

And boy did it ever!

LET LOVE COME TO YOU

One day she met her husband-to-be in a business meeting. On first sight they both knew they were meant to be together.

And just 3 weeks later, they were engaged. They’ve been happily married and so much in love ever since.

Her husband, Brian — or Bri as everyone calls him — is a dreamboat. He’s handsome, intelligent, well-off and devoted to Arielle. Just the kind of guy who would cause any woman to throw herself down on the ground and thank the Spirit that she found him.

You might be thinking that she just got lucky, or that the Law of Attraction and all this “calling in the one” or “manifesting a soulmate” talk won’t work for you.

However, it’s worked for so many women just the way Arielle explains how she did it.

You just need to know exactly how to get it to work for you. It’s not brain-dead simple like all the hype makes it out to be. There’s a little bit of work to do.

But think about it. Being able to manifest whatever you want in life? And in this case, manifesting your soulmate? A little work is definitely worth it.

Even if you think you’re too late for love. Or if you think all the good guys are already taken. Or if you’re too worried and afraid to get hurt again.

Even if you think you’re not attractive enough to find someone to love you.

It only takes a little belief and love in yourself.

It’s time to find your soulmate.

And no, I don’t think there’s ONE guy out there who is your actual soulmate. I think there are tons of guys who might be a great soulmate for you.

I believe soulmates are co-created.

But you have to be ready, open, and willing for one to find you. And that’s what Arielle can show you how to do.

Arielle Ford has helped a lot of people find love regardless of age, physical looks, personal belief systems and situations. Whatever she has to show you is definitely worth taking a look.

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I hear it all the time.

The law of attraction is a bunch of hooey. It doesn’t work. It’s just a fad.

But then you also hear about the hundreds, maybe thousands, of people who have had success with manifesting their dreams and desires.

So what’s going on? What are some people doing differently that’s giving them positive results?

I may not be an expert on the Law of Attraction, but what I know is that although it’s not as simple as some of the hype…

Manifesting what you want is REAL and it works.

You don’t just create a half-baked vision board, put in pictures, cutouts or notes on what you want from the Universe and wait for magic to happen.

When I get positive results using the Law of Attraction, it’s because of these:

MANIFEST YOUR LOVE LIFE

1. You have to truly believe that you CAN attract what you want.

You can’t half-ass your desires. When you decide to do a vision board, you put in a lot of effort and really commit to it. When you decide on doing a manifestation box, you commit to it and really make it as unique as it can be. Make it yours. And most of all, believe that you will receive.

2. You also have to be CRYSTAL CLEAR on what you want.

You’ve got to put in the details. Every single one, down to the letter. If you’re asking for a new car, don’t skip out on the brand, the color, or the model. Put in everything.

3. Love yourself.

Before anything wonderful can happen to you, you must already be completely happy and in love with who you are and what you’ve done up to now. Completely love and appreciate yourself. Any negativity will ruin it for you.

4. Be open to what the Universe brings you.

That means you never know exactly how your desires will manifest into your life. If you’re looking for love, he could be your next-door neighbor, an old high-school classmate you haven’t seen in years, or maybe even that smug and sexy entrepreneur who always takes your favorite seat at your local coffee shop.

There are plenty of examples, but you just need to keep an open mind and heart on how the results will manifest into your life.

Now, while we’re on the topic of manifesting love. I want to tell you about a wonderful friend of mine, Arielle Ford.

She’s an expert when it comes to using the Law of Attraction to manifest true love and meeting your soulmate.

She started out as a publicist, launching the careers of Deepak Chopra and Neale Donald Walsch. And when she started applying their strategies, she met the love of HER life.

If you’re a single woman looking for love, I heartily recommend you sign up to watch her online seminar.

Arielle is full of wisdom. I actually call her my fairy godmother. She’s so special to me. And I think she will be special to you too.

It doesn’t matter if you think it’s too late for you to find love, or if you think you’re not attractive enough for anyone to like you, or whatever you are telling yourself that is just bullshit preventing you from being connected in love and passion to a really great guy.

And especially if you think all the good men are already taken… Sign up for Arielle’s webinar.

When you know how, you can manifest whatever your heart desires. After this, you’ll be able to manifest your soulmate, just like Arielle manifested her own soulmate many years ago.

And her husband, Brian (everyone just calls him Bri) is absolutely GORGEOUS inside and out.

ARI AND BRI

I may not be an expert at the Law of Attraction, but Arielle Ford is right up there with the big names. Her advice will surely help you manifest your soulmate and find true love.

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Is it her mind or her hormones?

Do you or your partner struggle to orgasm?

“Hormone replacement made me fat and I think my problem climaxing is in my head. Help!”

Is it her mind or her hormones?

Here’s my advice…

Get on my new list, The Orgasm Gap, to get periodic articles about how to reliably give and receive vaginal orgasms, also called, penetration orgasms, penis-in-vagina orgasms, or orgasms from intercourse.

ORGASMS FOR ALL!

Now, have you been following our recent discussion about women’s and men’s struggle to orgasm potentially due to hormonal deficiency?

If you’re not on anti-depressants or other pharmaceuticals that suppress libido, checking your hormone levels is a smart idea.

If your hormones are low, you can supplement with libido-boosting adaptogens and superfoods (such as those present in the Huge Load Formula smoothie recipes or the ManTea premixed powder. And yes, I drink a Huge Load smoothie every morning I am home. Tim makes it for me. We both have one. These bioactives work as well for women as they do for men.

Or you can take actual hormone replacement therapy. Go to a functional medicine doctor if possible.

Here’s a note from Shelley who thinks HRT made her fat and her issue is “in her head.” Here’s my advice:

“Hi Susan,

I am 45 years old and post menopausal. Most of my life, I’ve had the problem of almost achieving an orgasm, and then nothing.

I tried hormone replacement therapy (HRT). But I refuse to take them because I gain 20 plus pounds in a month.

I believe that a lot of my issue with orgasming is in my head. I get distracted easily and it really sucks!

My question is, how do I get out of my head for good?” — Shelley

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Dear Shelley,

I encourage you to experiment with HRT (hormone replacement therapy) again. Sometimes it takes a little trial and error to figure out what estrogen delivery system, formulation and amount is most efficacious for an individual woman.

And balancing estrogen with progesterone is also important. A testosterone/DHEA cream on your clitoris can also improve vaginal tone and sensation of your clitoral structure.

If all your doc did was give you a prescription for estrogen, you need to find a better doctor — I recommend a functional medicine specialist who will take the time to look at your whole endocrine system, your weight gain, and general health.

Research “bio-identical hormones” online. And if you’ve had breast or prostate cancer, work with your endocrinologist and oncologist together to find some alternative solutions to HRT — for women perhaps a wild yam compound cream or only topical testosterone and no estrogen… Read Abe Morgenthaler’s info on Testosterone and prostate cancer if you’re a guy.

Supplemental hormones, when adjusted correctly for both sexes, should actually help you lose fat and increase muscle, not make you fat.

Talk to your doctor, but from what I’m reading now, you likely have an insulin resistance issue from our modern diet of too many carbs and sugar without enough clean fat, protein and vegetables.

Insulin is also a hormone.  When you fast, it resets your insulin levels so that instead of storing fat, you burn it. Consider intermittent fasting.

OVERALL EFFECTS OF FASTING

According to Dr. David Fung, leading medical expert on the benefits of intermittent fasting, and author of The Complete Guide to Fasting: How To Heal Your Body:

INTERMITTENT FASTING

✔︎ Fasting lowers glucose, lowers blood pressure, and lowers the risk of cancer.

✔︎ Fasting helps with permanent weight loss, boosts brainpower, slows aging and improves heart health.  Plus, intermittent fasting boosts the growth hormone. It does not make you tired. Does not burn muscle. And does not put you in starvation mode.

Try intermittent fasting to get rid of the weight gain.

You can drink coffee and tea with MCT oil added, as well as bone broth and water all while fasting. There’s a very small window of hunger and your body gets accustomed to the fasting such that it becomes a non-issue.

People who fast say they have improved energy and mental clarity while fasting. And fasting saves time and money!

I’ve begun intermittent fasting to improve my health, to clean and lean out my body, and to improve my skin tone (another benefit of fasting).

I’ve had blood sugar issues throughout my life. Mostly because growing up I ate breads, pizzas, bagels, cereals, and pasta… to the point where I became gluten-intolerant because I didn’t know wheat was just crap food.

FYI, Statins also lower libido.

Now that I’m older and there’s more information available regarding nutrition, I eat foods that have healthy fats such as nuts, avocados, MCT Oil like Bulletproof Brain Octane and butter, avocado and coconut oil.

I think alternating fasts with a high-fat, low-carb diet and “high-intensity interval training” is the ticket to having more regulated blood sugar, a leaner body, better overall health and vitality… which means sex is easier, better and more pleasurable. HIIT takes only 20 minutes a couple times a week. It’s a short, effective way to work out. It’s a bio-hack, like fasting and HRT.

I follow Dave Asprey of Bulletproof to learn all these concepts. He is my all-around health guru.

Here’s the book I’m currently reading to supplement my 2X-a-week 30-minute slow strength weight workouts, yoga and walking:

HIGH-INTENSITY INTERVAL TRAINING

Net net. Try resetting your hormonal systems through supplementation, fasting and interval training. In 90 days or less you will see significant results.

Now, let’s deal with your monkey mind…

MEDITATION FOR ORGASMIC ACHIEVEMENT

Try meditation for training your mind to be still and relaxed.

If you get distracted, meditation helps you bring yourself back to focus.

The theta state of meditation is the same as the trance state you go into when you’re orgasmic.

If you meditate you will get a higher awareness of your mind-chatter and an ability to self-regulate your emotions and thoughts.

I recommend the Zen12 program as it “meditates for you.”

This link will get you the full version of the relaxation music, a full guided meditation, and previews of the sounds of nature and white noise.

An hour’s worth of meditation in just 12 minutes is why they call it Zen12. Just hit play and you’re done.

MEDIATES FOR YOU

These three things – hormone supplementation, fasting and meditation – are the leading bio-hacks to having what you want:

A thin, healthy orgasmic body.

Try them both. And go back to your doctor and get your hormones adjusted. You may do better with an estrogen creme.

Experiment. Don’t give up!!!!!

Let me know how things go.

And thanks for asking.

Your question was helpful to many, many people.

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What do “the numbers” say about your future?

Interesting story…

One of my close girlfriends is a high-powered technology company CEO.

She is so important that I often see her on TV on CNBC and featured in Fortune magazine.

It’s hard to believe a hard driving business woman would not only rely on, but literally not sign a contract until the right date according to her numerology reading.

Numerology, like Astrology, is considered an esoteric, rather than scientific system.

I use numerology as a tool. As a filter. As a lens for considering my life.

My friend Mike Madigan is a numerologist. And he offers a zero cost numerology chart you can get when you go here:

Based on your date of birth along with your name as given at birth your numerology chart tells you that:

• Your “Life Path” is *a certain number*.
• Your “Expression” is *a certain number*.
• Your “Soul Urge” is *a certain number*.

Your very unique combination of numbers can inform you about possibilities in your life.

To learn what these numbers mean, and what they say about your personality and your future, go to:

I guarantee the free report you’ll receive will give you food for thought about your life in 2017.

Let me know if you like this kind of thing. I sure do!

You can trust Mike. He will not spam you or sell your email. I know him personally. He is from New Zealand and his wife is one of my favorite people at parties. She’s scandalously funny and adorable and they are a really good couple. He’s built a very nice life for himself through his numerology practice. And you can get a complimentary reading because of my connection to them. Enjoy!

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As a sexpert and a woman, I have a ton of compassion for all that men have to go through to have really good sex. It’s tough being a guy!

That’s why I wasn’t surprised when I got this answer from my close friend Jim Benson about the anxious thoughts and feelings that men get prior to sex.

I asked, “Jim, what percentage of men would you say have experienced performance anxiety in their sex lives?”

His answer? “Very close to 100%.” (I was guessing over 90%)
Just say “No” to anxiety!

So that means if you’ve ever had that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach prior to sex, knowing that you might not be able to deliver the goods, you’re in good company. You’re part of the 100%!

Or if you’ve ever been uncomfortable talking about a sexual issue with a partner….

Or if you’ve obsessed about the worst possible outcome from a sexual experience….

Or if you’ve avoided sex altogether because you just don’t want to deal with the anxiety that it brings up….

If you can say “yes” to any of these, you’re part of the 100% of men who have experienced performance anxiety at one time or another.

And whether you only experience it occasionally or it’s your constant, unwanted companion, performance anxiety is of ZERO help to you in the bedroom.

Jim is THE MAN when it comes to helping guys break out of their self-induced sexual challenges. (Yes, most of the time performance anxiety is something you’re doing to yourself — but you don’t know how to stop it!)

He’s an international sexuality trainer who has helped thousands of men experience greater freedom and pleasure in the bedroom. When it comes to working with men’s core sexual issues, there’s no coach I trust more than Jim.

He’s got a 3-step system to help men take the “performance” and “anxiety” out of the bedroom. And he’s offering these critical tools in a free webinar next week.

Jim’s webinars are always a ton of fun. He teaches from the heart and shares very practical, effective tools. I know you’ll really enjoy this event.

A personal note from Jim:

“In this webinar, I’m not going to tell you to change your diet, go to yoga class or reduce the stress factors in your life. These things can help, but a lifestyle change is only going to get you 10% of the way there.”

“I WILL be explaining to you exactly what to do the moment when performance anxiety strikes. And what I’ve seen personally and in my work with thousands of men is that my approach works. It gets you out of anxiety and into pleasure, connection, and the orgasmic bliss you want.”

I just got off a call with Jim a few minutes ago and he says the webinar can only hold a hundred folks. And there won’t be a replay, so you have to register to join LIVE.

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When what each of us wants seems light-years away…

Discover how to seduce your partner in full integrity.

People often ask me: are men and women really from different planets when it comes to their sexual needs?

It’s one of those questions I sidestep, knowing that the real question is of a different order altogether. The “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” metaphor, while brilliant, puts men and women in different orbits at quite a distance from each other. In my experience, that doesn’t have to be so.

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Hey, did you sign up for Jim Benson’s FREE LIVE Webinar yet? I hope you got the email I sent you about it.

If not, I’m copying and pasting it for you below.

It’s happening tonight. So you better get there and sign up.

Last time I spoke with Jim, he said he won’t be providing replays. Only the people who actually show up will get to hear his best advice on destroying performance anxiety forever.

Performance Anxiety Webinar <=== Register for the FREE LIVE event and beat performance anxiety for good

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Hi!

As a sexpert and a woman, I have a ton of compassion for all that men have to go through to have really good sex. It’s tough being a guy!

That’s why I wasn’t surprised when I got this answer from my close friend Jim Benson about the anxious thoughts and feelings that men get prior to sex.

I asked, “Jim, what percentage of men would you say have experienced performance anxiety in their sex lives?”

His answer? “Very close to 100%.” (I was guessing over 90%)
Just say “No” to anxiety!

It means that if you’ve ever had that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach prior to sex, knowing that you might not be able to deliver the goods, you’re in good company. You’re part of the 100%!

Or if you’ve ever been uncomfortable talking about a sexual issue with a partner….

Or if you’ve obsessed about the worst possible outcome from a sexual experience….

Or if you’ve avoided sex altogether because you just don’t want to deal with the anxiety that it brings up….

If you’ve answered “yes” to any of these, you’re part of the 100% of men who have experienced performance anxiety at one time or another.

And whether you only experience it occasionally or it’s your constant, unwanted companion, performance anxiety is of ZERO help to you in the bedroom.

Jim is THE MAN when it comes to helping guys break out of their self-induced sexual challenges. (Yes, most of the time performance anxiety is something you bring upon yourself — but you don’t know how to stop it!)

He’s an international sexuality trainer who has helped thousands of men experience greater freedom and pleasure in the bedroom. When it comes to working with men’s core sexual issues, there’s no coach I trust more than Jim.

He’s got a 3-step system to help men take the “performance” and “anxiety” out of the bedroom. And he’s offering these critical tools in a free webinar next week:

Join The Live Webinar <=== Register here to learn how to eliminate performance anxiety — for good!

Jim’s webinars are always a ton of fun. He teaches from the heart and shares very practical, effective tools. I know you’ll really enjoy this event.

A personal note from Jim:

“In this webinar, I’m not going to tell you to change your diet, go to yoga class or reduce the stress factors in your life. These things can help, but a lifestyle change is only going to get you 10% of the way there.”

“I WILL be explaining to you exactly what to do the moment when performance anxiety strikes. And what I’ve seen personally and in my work with thousands of men is that my approach works. It gets you out of anxiety and into pleasure, connection, and the orgasmic bliss you want.”

I just got off a call with Jim a few minutes ago and he says the webinar can only hold a hundred folks. And there won’t be a replay, so you have to register to join LIVE.

Eliminate Performance Anxiety From Your Sex Life Forever <=== QUICK! Click To Join The LIVE Webinar Before Slots Run Out

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Escape the slow decline of hot attraction.

Couples get stuck in in a boring routine in the bedroom for all kinds of reasons, most of them quite common and predictable. If your sex life has become hum-drum, you’re not alone. Few couples escape the slow decline of that characteristic sizzling hot attraction of a new relationship. What distinguishes couples who get that sizzle back and grow it into a priceless resource that enhances every part of life is also predictable. They do whatever it takes to get out of the well-worn groove they have fallen into to get each other off.

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If you’re looking to add more pleasure, passion and presence in bed, you might want to come down to Mill Valley and join my good friend, Jim Benson’s “Awakened Masculine Boot Camp Weekend.”

AWAKEN THE MASCULINE ALPHA IN YOU

Jim Benson is an international men’s sexuality coach and has helped thousands of guys in the last 13 years experience more pleasure and have more fun as “manimals” in the bedroom. The boot camp is for you if:

• You no longer want to tolerate a less-than-satisfying sex life.
• You want to gain more sexual confidence as an “Alpha Lover.”
• You’re ready to be free of shame, anxiety, old damaging sexual habits and compulsive behavior

Jim is just a wonderful man, so full of life, passion and excitement.

I just love being around him, and I’m sure you would too. It’s such a great experience being with him, and it’s something I urge you to experience yourself during his Boot Camp.

So if you’re somewhere in the area, and you want to radically improve your life and become an Awakened Man, being a part of this event is something you will not regret.

Change the way you have sex, and you can change your entire life.

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In the absence of pressure, spontaneity arises.

Crazy good sex doesn’t happen by chance. It’s a couples project. Like any other high-priority project, it requires time and energy to make it happen. You might like the idea of having a beautiful vegetable garden, but if you spend all your free time on other pursuits, the garden will remain a nice idea. The same is true with your sex life. You may like the idea of having rockin’ good sex into your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond, but it will remain a dream unless you put in the time.

Here’s how EASY it is to schedule a hot sex date. So EASY that even the most checked out lover will be enthusiastic about it. (Scroll Down)

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No more self-criticism.

“We believe it does us good to torture ourselves, at least a little bit. We believe that if we stop beating ourselves up we’ll become complacent, never be perfect, and thus be permanently inadequate!”

A woman friend told me not long ago: “To be honest, I’m not really even having sex. Mentally, I’m keeping track of how I look. My husband is incredibly sweet and attentive, but I’m all about sucking in my stomach and worrying about my jiggly thighs. I’m so self-consciousness that I’ve pretty much tanked our sex life.”

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Have you heard of the “jade egg?”

It’s a little egg-shaped piece of stone that a woman puts up inside her vaginal canal to tone and lubricate her vagina.

Women use them to help with incontinence (leaking urine) as well as strengthening the pelvic muscles to increase orgasmic contractions.

Gwyneth Paltrow’s website, Goop, has come under fire from a gynecologist for recommending jade eggs.

So I sought the advice of the most qualified, experienced and renowned expert on Jade Eggs, my friend, Saida Desilets.

JADE EGG PROTOCOL

I have one of Saida’s eggs made from real Jade.

She actually owns a giant boulder of Jade from a Canadian mine.

That’s how she knows the source is pure.

One of the problems with Jade Eggs is that there are a lot of imposters that are not real Jade and therefore have overly porous qualities that make them difficult to keep sanitary.

I called Saida this morning and asked her to write up the facts for us about Jade Eggs. Here’s what she said…

Facts:

∗ A Jade Egg does not have the power to make your pain, trauma or sexual or emotional issues go away. However, by understanding how to properly use a Jade Egg, I’ve been able to demonstrate real (and amazing) effects on a woman’s psycho-sexual well-being.

∗ When you first get your Jade Egg from me, it is safe to boil your egg (if it’s real, pure Jade like mine) to sanitize it. Then, it’s essential to rinse it under warm-hot tap water after every use. If you are prone to infections, soaking it in water with a few drops of tea tree oil or grapefruit seed extract is also great. Make sure you rinse the egg before reinserting.

∗  There are no known toxic shock syndrome issues associated with the use of Jade Eggs. This claim is based on an assumption, not on fact and research.

∗  Jade Eggs don’t have the power to give us better orgasms. Proper use of a Jade Egg IS known to result in women having greater orgasms and a greater variety of orgasms, but that is due to how the Jade Egg is used, not the egg itself. That’s why JUST wearing it doesn’t really give many results, except for added vaginal lubrication.

∗  Not every one can use the Jade Egg. It’s strongly advised for pregnant women or women with any sexual imbalance not to use the Jade Egg.

What you can do:

∗  Purchase a real, pure Nephrite Jade Egg from only a GIA certified source like Saida Desilets. Follow her video instructions on how to use it for maximum effect. She is the world’s leader in Jade Egg use for women.

∗  Make sure there is a hygienic protocol and basic guidance that comes with your Jade Egg like Saida offers.

∗  Go slowly. Your body will be learning a new skill, developing new awareness, and building new neural pathways. This takes time. If you are in a rush, this practice is not for you.

∗  The truth about the Jade Egg practice is in how you practice. By understanding your own nature as a psycho-sexual being, you’ll make leaps and bounds in your intimate relationship with yourself, your body and your pleasure. Saida’s video series and instruction book help you use the Jade Egg effectively.

Saida’s Recommendation:

“As with anything that is worthy, receiving proper guidance from a trusted authority can really ensure success as you explore the Jade Egg training. I’ve created a step-by-step playbook that guides you through the first two weeks with your Jade Egg.”

What’s Included:

Saida’s book, The Emergence of the Sensual Woman, A GENUINE GIA certified Canadian Nephrite Jade Egg & The Jade Goddess Practice CD.

PLUS:

A 2 week step-by-step Playbook that leads you through a daily, 10-minute (minimum) practice along with a sample PDF of Saida’s book to get you started while you wait for your physical book to arrive.

13 Practice Videos that show you exactly how-to do each practice so you achieve instant success.

It’s the perfect mini-immersion program to get you successfully started.

The program itself is held on a Password Protected Membership site where you can watch the training online.

Bottom line?

Be careful of imposters. Saida is for real. She cares. She’s devoted her life to helping women fix incontinence, increase their lubrication, and get in touch with their vaginal musculature to increase their orgasmic pleasure.

Get a real, true Jade Egg from the world’s leading authority.

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The egg has a hole drilled through so you can tie unwaxed, unflavored dental floss through it, and a little string hangs out of your vagina so you can pull it out easily.

I just stick my clean fingers up inside and grab it… but it does come with the hole. Just FYI.

And if you have any questions, reply to this email and I will answer them for you.

The Jade Egg is so cool!

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Man of the year award goes to, who?

Surrounded by your love and penetrated by your lust.

What She Wants Most: Two Essentials to Fulfill Your Woman

2 Compliments in 1 Minute <== Watch How!

Here’s a secret most guys don’t know about women. In fact, most women don’t even know this secret about women.

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“Trusted Hot Sex Advisor To Millions”

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Ideas for her sexual personality type.

A dozen ways to give her the sexy string bikini based on her sexual personality.

Women need encouragement and reassurance so you don’t think they’re slutty for stripping down and prancing around in the skimpiest of lingerie.

WHAT’S HER TYPE?

And we want sexy fun times with our man.

Thinking through a few options about how you’ll give her the string bikini ahead of time — instead of focusing on “one perfect way” — will give you flexibility in the moment to offer her alternative playful options.

Feel free to remix any parts of these ideas for giving her the string bikini and/or string bikini grab bag based on her sexual personality type.

Go with your gut.

Personalize these ideas to your preferences.

Now here are the four types of personalities: Explorers, Builders, Directors and Negotiators.

According to my mentor, Dr. Helen Fisher, anthropologist at Rutgers University and author of “The Anatomy of Love,” “Why We Love,” and “Why Him, Why Her,” our personalities are composed of two basic types of traits: traits of character developed through life experience and types of temperament, 50% of which stems from our biology.

WHICH SEXUAL PERSONALITY IS SHE?

Is your lady an adventure seeker? Does she bore easily and enjoy impulsive novelty? Is she curious, mentally flexible and creative?

She’s an Explorer.

Is your lady orderly, methodical, cautious, conscientious and respectful of authority?

She’s a Builder.

Is your lady more analytical, with deep attention to detail and more of an introvert?

Director.

Is your lady more of an extrovert? Talkative, intuitive around people and she remembers emotional experiences?

She’s a Negotiator.

WATCH THIS VIDEO

Watch this video to get a dozen ideas based on the four sexual personality types.

Then mix or use these ideas to come up with your own way to delight your lover.

I’d love to hear how you did it. So please email me your story.

And if you ever have questions, I’m here! Just hit reply and I will get back to you.

I appreciate you so much for being a man who moves his woman toward her sexual potential.

You really don’t know what a rare gem you are!

Have So Much Fun,
Susan

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Sex Joy!

Over the years, I’ve had thousands of intimate conversations with men and women about their sex lives. Sometimes we talk about wives and girlfriends, their behaviors and motivations. At other times I offer education about sexual anatomy and specific techniques to increase a woman’s desire. Sometimes the conversation centers on specific types of relationships: one-night stands, younger men dating “cougars,” non-monogamous or “monogamish” relationships. I often talk to men who married their first and only love 50 years ago but haven’t had sex in a decade. People consistently want to know everything about their genitalia as well as their partners.

I feel blessed when people confide their most personal thoughts and feelings, their challenges and fears. Over the course of years, I’ve heard intimate stories from hundreds of men and women who pour their hearts out and ask me the questions they are too embarrassed or ashamed to ask anyone else. It is satisfying beyond measure to feel their trust when they only know me through our online programs, articles and videos.

Again and again, I am touched by the intimate love a man feels for his woman—how deeply he wants to please her, how thrilled he is when his woman shares her body and surrenders to pleasure.

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“Everytime I play this, it makes me hot to trot. Like ringing the bell for Pavlo’s dog. I drool for my man when he plays this sex music.”

Do you want something to make sex incredibly better without any effort?

I have A LOT of relationship and sex advice that I can give you. And I do it every day through articles, emails and videos.

However, some of you also want something you can use immediately.

Something that improves your sex life and relationship without you having to learn or practise new techniques or sit down and “work” it out with your lover.

All that “work” is important, and I suggest you find time to do it.

Yet if you still want something that is “push-button-easy,” I have  just the thing.

SOUNDTRACK OF YOUR SEX LIFE

My friend Ellen Eatough produced a unique kind of music that contains Auditory Pheromones®. You will notice an improvement in your sex life just by playing it while you’re making love.

Lovers have experienced more orgasms, longer erections and extended stamina for men, revived libidos for couples who’ve been together for years, and more passionate lovemaking overall.

Some people listen to sexy R&B music to get themselves “in the mood.” However, they both need to like that kind of music to appreciate it.

With this, it doesn’t matter whether you like classical music, rock, dance or whatever..

Just play this when you’re having sex and you’ll notice its effects instantly without having to think about it.

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It’s incredible how technology has progressed to the point of something like Love Unbound. Who would have thought we would someday have push-button turn-on music that works for anyone regardless of their musical tastes?

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NEW! Get John’s brand new book: Beyond Mars and Venus.

Celebrity John Gray (Mars/Venus) explains #1 thing women want.

After cleanliness, the #1 trait women want to see in most men during sex is their “Presence.”

Watch this 3:49 minute video where John Gray and I talk about HOW to be present during sex.

SHE WANTS YOUR ATTENTION

Based on my survey results, women say the three most important attributes of a lover are:

1. Physical cleanliness
2. Being present and emotionally connected
3. Communication skills

Men say the three most important attributes of a lover are:

1. Physical cleanliness
2. Giving oral sex (I can’t tell you how important it is to give men regular, enthusiastic fellatio.)
3. (tie) Emotional Maturity and Being present and emotionally connected

CLEANLINESS

If you’re the man, I suggest manscaping by trimming back your pubic hair, including those hairs that grow on the shaft of the penis. (Don’t shave the area with a razor as it leads to stubble and ingrown hairs. Here are the tools I recommend and use myself. ==> The Visual Inch)

Check with your partner to see what kind of pubic grooming appeals to them. Every person is different.
Trim your fingernails and clean your hands thoroughly. If you have a job that makes your hands look perennially dirty, try this. Use dental floss daily and get regular dental hygienist cleanings for your teeth. And watch how much onion and garlic you eat if it affects your breath. A nice shower before sex will make your partner very happy.

PRESENCE

I’ve done two videos with Jim Benson on how to be present during sex:

The Tuning Fork Technique That Triggers Her Intense Orgasms <== Presence Explained

The Come Together Workshop Experience <== A Presence Technique

Both of these videos explain how to be more present and less “in your head” trying to DO your lover instead of just simply connecting with her.

COMMUNICATION

As far as communication skills, this article on, “Two Option Leading” describes not just one but two communication strategies that are the foundation of a great bedroom relation.

The first is an agreement you two share where she doesn’t need to use any manners and you hungrily appreciate all the feedback she can give you. It works for men equally as well. It’s simply called, the “Thank You Agreement.” Though it’s alright to just say, “OK, baby” instead of “Thank you” when he or she gives you feedback.

The more you encourage feedback, the better lover you’ll become.

Feedback is a turbo booster for giving and receiving incredible pleasure. Feedback is the cheat sheet to an A+ sexy time.

But not everyone is tuned into what their body wants from day to day, from moment to moment. The more sex you have, the more experience you can draw from. But each of us is an ever-evolving sexual creature whose desires, if we allow them, are constantly changing and building on new experiences. So if you’re not sure what you want or you just know that what’s happening isn’t IT, then using this next skill will help you begin to get closer to your own desire.

The second communication skill — Two Option Leading — is important because it’s a powerful way to escalate your lover’s arousal without taking them out of their sexual trance state of relaxation.

Imagine if I said, “How do you want me to lick your shaft?”

Versus me saying, “Do you want me to lick faster up and down or more slowly around this way?”

Wouldn’t it be easier for you to say “faster” or “slower?”

Giving your lover two choices instead of an open-ended question during lovemaking allows them to give you feedback without having to think too hard.

Start with the Thank You Agreement and Two Option Leading as your fundamental communications skills. Explain them to your partner and try them out.

Soon you will get the feedback you need to give your lover more intense pleasure while feeling confident that you are doing a great job.

And remember, guys want Blow Jobs. If you are not absolutely fantastic at giving oral pleasure I suggest these two resources:

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Watching beautiful couples demonstrate 40 fellatio and 20 cunnilingus techniques as well as 22 oral sex positions will give you a treasure trove of moves to delight each other with confidence and pleasure. Play along as you watch or memorize these moves and have your partner thrashing and moaning in ecstasy.

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Some women relish giving head to their man. They know some things other women don’t know that make fellatio as orgasmic for her as for him. The Blow Job Secret busts wide open all the truths and myths about getting off while giving oral. This is a sex-life-altering downloadable book full of incredible insights that will give you a whole new perspective on fellatio.

Hey, we know what makes sex extraordinary.

A little knowledge, a few agreements, and a willing partner and you are set up for sexcess.

So go draw a bath and get sudsing!

I’ve given away over 17,000 copies of my new book, Sexual Soulmates: 6 Essentials for Connected Sex in less than 6 days. Did you get your free copy yet?

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I’m giving you these seven sensual Valentine’s Day date night ideas you can pick and choose from.

[STEAMY VALENTINE’S DAY CRASH COURSE PART 5]

A great date night is crucial to a flourishing sex life. Couples who have 1 date night a week are 30% happier.

On Valentine’s Day the pressure is on to “WOW!” your date so they feel the chemistry.

Here are eight HOT new date night ideas for Valentine’s NIGHT that will put you in the top 1% of all fun lovers.

8 Hot And Steamy Valentine’s Day Sex Date Ideas <=== These Aren’t Your Parent’s Date Nights!

CANDLE-LIT RAPTURE

My job is to turn your life into one long steamy, passionate and connected sexual experience for you and your lover.

That’s why I’m giving you these seven sensual date night ideas you can pick and choose from each week.

Sexy Date Nights You’ll Never Forget <=== Forget About Going To A Movie Or Walking Through Gardens, I’d Rather Have You Lying In Bed With Your Partner And Making Sweet Love

Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be for couples and lovers only. You can have a steamy Valentine’s Day on your own.

Ladies, the next article is written especially for you. However, men can still use the “secrets” I’m going to share tomorrow to grow their female-pleasuring toolbox.

Stay tuned for it. For now, check out these 8 Sexy Valentine’s Date Night Ideas below.

8 Hot And Sexy Date Night Ideas You’ll Never Forget <=== Try Them This Valentine’s!

Want more sex positions to add variety in the bedroom? How about some sensual massage strokes? Maybe you’d like to learn more oral lovemaking techniques as well.

I’ve got you covered.

Here’s my Ultimate Valentine’s Day gift to you!

The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection is On Sale Now for 60% Off While Supplies Last. If you want a copy, don’t wait!

Inside, you’ll get over 200 sex techniques you can try out with your lover. What a great gift just in time for some hot, passionate, heart-connected Valentine’s Day sex.

ROMANCE HER… Then Grab The Steamy Sex Ed® Video Collection <=== ON SALE Right now! (60% Off)

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